ताण आणि “काम(सेक्स)” वर होमिओपॅथिक उपचार / Homoeopathic Treatment of Stress and “Sex-Life”.

Homoeopathic Treatment of Stress and “Sex-Life”.

Both Nihar and Gauri are “College Sweet Hearts”. After being in a relationship for four-five years, when the time came to take a decision regarding marriage, Nihar was more worried and stressed than happy. He seemed to be sure that, the family would never approve of his marriage as Gauri was not a “self-caste” and it happened exactly as he expected. He was strongly opposed by his family.

Now, there are only two options left, either to bow down to the opposition of the family or to marry Gauri regardless of the family’s wishes. Then he chose another option, married Gauri and was literally thrown out of the house by the family. broke up with him. Although there was a possibility that his family members would act like this, he was shocked that they also took ‘quick action ‘.

It was the first night of this newly married couple. The tension on the mind when the blood relatives broke up turned on the body and on the first night he developed the problem of ‘Sexual Erection’ . This caused him to develop Anxiety about Sexual Performance . Due to excessive Stress and constant worry about not being able to “Sex”, he developed diabetes .

Three years after their marriage, when Nihar and Gauri went to see a Psychiatrist and Sex Therapist for treatment, his Erectile problems persisted. Also the Libido was reduced. Both of them were thinking of getting a divorce due to the failure of their relationship . Psychiatrist and Sex Therapist treatment were also unsuccessful .

He came to Chaitanya Clinic once as a last resort he was referred to me by his close relative who was cured by Homoeopathic Medicine to consult a Homoeopathic Doctor before divorce. Though it was too late for him, he got treatment in time by making a wise decision to go to aHomoeopathic specialist . Today they are living a happy life .

An experience shared by a psychiatrist says, “It is not a newly married couple’s problem but various types of stress are having a big impact on the couple’s “work life” (sex) .

Stress is defined by the World Health Organization as “the mental state of constant worry or test caused by a difficult situation” .

The characteristic of stress is that it is not visible to the naked eye; But it is a puddle inside that person.

“Sexual health is an important aspect of Physical and Mental Health. If the Sex life  is impaired because of it, it is very likely that one or both partners in the same couple are responsible for stress. Many couples do not talk about these things because of too much Anxiety. There are many examples of it going as far as it goes. So if couples have such problems, it is important to admit it and consult aHomoeopathic specialist on time. How stress directly affects marital co-existence and how to manage it with proper planning becomes essential in today’s fast paced and competitive era. Which is 100 percent possible with Homoeopathic Treatment .”

In a scientific study, the researchers, in their study Chronic Stress & Sexual Function in Women, how does stress affect the Sexual Function of women ? Searched for it. Although research has previously shown that stress adversely affects Reproductive Capacity , how exactly does stress affect a woman’s sexual response ? The main objective of the researchers was to investigate this.

According to him, ” The higher the amount of Stress in the body, the lower the amount of Genital Sexual arousal.”

It is clear from this research that in women under constant Stress, the level of the hormone “cortisol ” is high, and Mental instability also results in decreased libido .

According to a Sexologist, “an important pre-condition for intercourse is that your state of Mind should be completely Calm at that time. Any Fear, Worry, Anxiety, haste in the Mind during sex has a direct effect on Sexual performance. Because when the Mind is Anxious, it can become sexually aroused.” No. “Orgasam” is also something to be experienced. If the Mind is not steady, the feeling cannot come fully. If the Mind is worried about men for any reason or is worried about Sex, Sexual erection cannot be achieved. It is very important for couples to understand that often all their Sexual problems are rooted in stress.”

From the story of the novel “A Sexless Marriage” it is noticed that the desire for Sex slows down due to the Stress due to different responsibilities in the world after marriage.

The heroine of this story is busy raising two children in her life. For some reason she suddenly feels strongly that she is physically separated from her husband. Will this result in estrangement of husband and wife, extramarital affairs, divorce at times ? Such questions begin to torment her. Are we worn out by age, busyness at home and our habit of neglecting ourselves ? Does your husband not feel attracted towards you ? Such questions are tormenting her. She realizes that she should talk to her husband, communicate freely. But she is extremely hesitant to talk about sex with her own husband. Because there is an unwritten rule of western society that after having children and crossing forty, you should not talk about this topic.

This is a funny story about how to manage different stresses in the world. With a slight difference, we also feel the same condition of couples .

According to a Gynecologist and Sex therapist , ‘Stress is like the name of our life. We just need to check again and again how much we are allowing it to affect our Work, Relationship, Co-life. When couples come to treatment for Sexual problems, they say, ‘We don’t fight aggressively…but why is “she” acting like this ? Why did ‘he‘ say the opposite ? We constantly argue over such small things. After going to bed with such arguments, intimacy cannot be achieved. Because the mind is not calm.’

In the Post-Corona era, the new shift to working from home has seen husbands and wives together all day in many households. Therefore, it has been highlighted that the tension in this relationship is increasing .

Considering the remarkable years of human evolution, men and women living together under one roof for so long was a novelty. Till now we had joint family system, now a couple has to play different roles like Lover, Friend, Counselor, Financial advisor. This creates terrible stress. The higher the mountain of expectations of the partner, the greater the stress. As stress is a killer for beauty, it has an adverse effect on work life.

Due to Corona, many people’s finances have been disrupted. The Stress caused by the Financial crisis is also a major threat to the Sex life .

I had a couple on regular medication. The financial condition of this family was good. In the meantime the drug was discontinued as the patient remained in good health. But in that family, that man had to close down his business and take up a traveling job due to a big loss in the business during the Corona period. So both were very stressed. As a result, the husband’s blood sugar spiked and his desire to work decreased.

“Stress is as much Mental as it is Physical. Couples who eat out all the time, their bodies are always under Stress. It directly affects their digestion, sleep and overall physical well-being. What kind of reading do we do ? How much screen time ? Bedtime.” Many Sex therapists have observed that do you watch T.V., mobile phones till the moment ? This also has an adverse effect on Physical, Mental and Sexual Health.”

I have a case of a 35 year old man. He is an IT young man who was suffering from ‘Low Libido and Erectile Dysfunction’ . Lack of sleep due to constant stress, coffee several times a day, smoking, drinking four to five times a week and Zero Exercise, was his overall daily routine .

It is important to understand that if the body lacks vigor, is constantly tired, does not get enough exercise and rest, and has addictions, then it is very wrong to expect a good work life.

Because Sexual Health is an important aspect of Physical and Mental Health .

When it comes to Homoeopathic remedies, first we are stressed. Our lifestyle is stressful. This should be accepted. Like all other career aspirations in the world, good “Sex” is also a necessity. A person whose Sex-life is smooth is also happy in other things. Therefore, if you feel that stress is affecting your life easily, you should take Homoeopathic treatment .

If Sexual problems are caused due to Stress , Yoga, Pranayama exercises are beneficial to calm the Mind and reduce Stress, but at the same time adding Homoeopathic treatment is very necessary.

In life, sometimes due to relatives, ups and downs in job and business, and sometimes due to situational reasons, we should assume that there will be Stress and Anxiety and we should learn to manage this Stress . Which is possible with Homoeopathy.

Most importantly, we need to understand that carrying the same burden over and over will not reduce it. For this, it is necessary to think of the spouse, to live peacefully and to look at life in general with interest !!!

Homoeopathic remedies definitely have this vision-changing power. Which can keep your stress under control and make your Sex-life happy.