भीतीचा बागलबुवा आणि होमिओपॅथी / Panic and Homoeopathy

“Dheeraj, if you get into the water, you will be scared ! How long will you stand on the bank like a stupid ?” Father said to him angrily.

Six-year-old Dhiraj did not dare to enter the water. He had seen a boy fall in a movie yesterday. The same scene was coming before his eyes. But his Father and his Teacher, who taught him to swim, were on fire. Finally, they picked up Dheeraj and threw him directly into the water. In a feeble attempt to hold onto the edge, Dheeraj choked as water entered his nose and mouth and his Fear of water intensified instead of diminishing.

Fear is also a natural Emotion in our Mind. All of us are afraid of something or the other at a young age.

Children are afraid of the dark, ghosts, strangers, police, animals (eg dogs, tigers, bears), loud noises, Sorceress (चेटकिन), old Lady.

Children are often afraid of giants, evil bearded dragons due to their vast imagination but inability to think rationally at a young age. At that age this fear is natural, in fact it is necessary to be afraid of some things.

Because Children who do not have any Fear play with many dangerous objects like knives, matches, sharp objects and injure themselves or when they understand this Fear automatically decreases.

But when extreme Fear weakens children Mentally, treatment is necessary. There are many reasons why children develop fear.

A previous experience, such as being Afraid of the Doctor because of an injection, causes the Mother to be afraid of Lizard, so the Children are also Afraid. Sometimes, in the name of discipline, we make children afraid of the police or bearded boys.

Sometimes fear is rooted in many things like insecurity, anger, inferiority complex.

For example, in a society where our Mother does not love us, Children are very Afraid to go away from their Mother. They try to cling to their Mother constantly. In such a case, if he is forcibly removed from his Mother, his Vulnerability increases.

Note that children’s Fears, however superficial they may seem to us, are very Real to Children. Moreover, if our parents are forcing us to do the things we Fear, then we are not safe with our Parents, which makes Children even more uncomfortable. Sometimes it is the Parents themselves who mock their Children for being Afraid of, in front of many people. Due to this mockery, the children become more and more Depressed. Such a Frightened child is lonely, helpless, isolated.

Parents need to think more sensibly about this problem of children. There is no need for children to feel ashamed and afraid of expressing their Fears to their parents. When the child is trying to overcome his Fear, parents should support the child with patience and tolerance.

“I’m with you. I won’t let you get hurt.”, such reassurance is very supportive to the child. Often children are very ashamed of what they are afraid of. At such times, children feel the touch of the parents’ Kind words or holding the children close to them is very reassuring.

During Adolescence, boys and girls may develop Fear of going to public places and meeting people. People around you are paying close attention to you. We keep thinking that they will notice our (real but minor problem) and laugh at us. Stuttering or stuttering, looking shy on your face, having to use public restrooms, etc. Being alone is better than meeting people.

When the children are ten to twelve years old, parents start screaming. “What a mess, you don’t hold anything back.” The fault is our own, because they are not used to it from childhood or they are not accustomed to being pampered too much.

Children should not be yelled at while inculcating the habit. Constant shouting makes children timid. In Public meeting, children should not be yelled at at all. They feel very insulted. Although children are young in age, they have the same feelings, respect and humiliation as us.

They should not be, “constantly locked up, locked up, threatened, not allow you to enter into Home” ,this creates a sense of insecurity in them.

Introverted children may seem very poor and quiet as children, but as they become independent, their suppressed Anger rears its head and they rebel.

Be Friendly with Children no matter how small. If they trust you enough to tell you their opinions about their school friends, teachers, you can be said to be their best Friend.

Keeping in Mind that there may be other Psychological problems behind Children’s Fear and also seeking expert guidance if necessary, parents should not feel this shortcoming.

With Counseling and appropriate Homoeopathic remedies, it is often possible to resolve the Fear itself.

Homoeopathy has very effective medicines for such problems which of course should not be taken without expert advice.